The odds of going to the store for a loaf of bread and coming out with only a loaf of bread are three billion to one. ~Erma Bombeck
Right, isn't it? haha, we're all like that. I'm like that, you're like that, she's like that.
We see a gorgeous outfit on sale. You know what that means, right? We can't let this go! So we try it on, and get ready for the moment as you turn around to view your spontaneous reflection in the dressing room mirror. You turn around and you love it! But wait, ... the shirt doesn't hug your curves the right way. But you just love this outfit, and you want to take it. I mean, it's on SALE and It's gorgeous! (and I secretly don't want anyone else to buy this)....Should I buy it?
Deja Vu! This scenario happens to all of us. Our instinct is always craving for something new, wanting this and wanting that. Well there are times that instinct should have no word in this. If you have a doubt, it's better to keep your credit card sealed inside your wallet and away from your "instinct's buying reach." If we let our instinct and imagination run wild in the clothing & bargain isles, who knows what we end up purchasing? which leaves us with the conclusion of guilt.
A bargain ain't a bargain unless it's something you need. ~Sidney Carroll
She just made an obvious point, right smack in the middle. We first came with a check list, better be sure to complete that check list before buying anything snazzy that will leave you feeling guilty afterward.
A consumer is a shopper who is sore about something. ~Harold Coffin
Another little demon that teams up with our instinct. It's typical when your depressed or sore you just wanna get out of the house, so your instinct takes you to the shopping mall, what a surprise. And it's obvious that shopping does take your mind off things, but not for long. And to pile that up, you even have the guilt of buying that $100 black dress that was probably better off being left in the rack.
Remember, if you have a doubt about ANYTHING you decide to purchase, start re-thinking before you purchase that outfit. If something seems wrong, if your not all that crazy about the outfit, or it probably seems even a little tight, it's better to just leave it behind and find something better, no matter how awesome the price tag on those tight skinny jeans are. When you try out an outfit, you have to feel completely fabulous wearing it.
Be sure to also question the outfits you try on. Such as, where would I wear this? Would I actually wear this out? You have to confirm that this looks fabulous on you, and that you will wear this. It's a bad purchase if you don't wear it, especially if you think it doesn't look all that good on you. Because odds are, that that cute outfit you once thought of wearing, is now hanging in your closet rack, abandoned.
Something else that would happen is "I will wear this once I loose about 5 or 7 pounds". Yeah right! By the time you loose those pounds, there will something else you would want to wear, and so on. (fashion trends go by quickly) Been there, done that. Don't wanna go back.
You have to think straight-forward before buying. You spot some cute jeans, and you WANT to buy them. That WANT gets in the way. So remember these tips before your WANT turns into a GUILT of WANTING (and buying). :)
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